What the title implies is not necessarily what you might be thinking. I am a writer. I write about what I think, feel, and know. The topic of Relationships is always a good one. Also, to explore areas of a topic not so much written about is something I find to be irresistible. “Men’s Liberation” is one of those areas.
Sometime ago I happened across a book titled “The Rules”. The book made me smile in that it brought out an approach to relationships that a number of women I am privileged to know called “common knowledge” amongst their selves as well as many of the other women they knew. Yet the book was a best seller and so there must have been at least some women who were enlightened.
Suffice it to say the central theme of “The Rules” is that each woman is to see herself as “a creature like no other” and develop a mystique around that theme. (I highly suggest all men who like sleeping with women buy and read “The Rules”) However, what the book does not point out is the real reason that the mysteriousness of a woman who portrays the role of a “creature like no other” works so well to attract a man’s attention. The answer is simple if not obvious, Men love the hunt.
It’s a classic scene where we have women who pride Their selves in being mysterious and men who do little to hide the fact they love the hunt. Most men have probably not even thought what it might mean to their love life if they would at least try to conceal the fact they love the hunt. Perhaps this is why most women in our culture think that most men are a bore. Given that then, the hunter becomes to the woman as an over bearing stalker.
Especially in light of how fast a man will turn head to stare at a woman he finds attractive. Meanwhile, I say, if men as a group could take a lesson from “The Rules” and become for their selves at least, “A Critter like no other” it just might be a positive step in male-female relationships...And provide a man with way more sex than he's probably getting now.
Then again, if men could just condition themselves to look into a woman’s eyes and not at her breasts when speaking with her, wouldn’t that be a landmark liberation day in the world of relationships eh? Anyway, I finish this blog-bite with a question; “Can men truly be liberated”?
Gary James
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About Me
- Gary James
- I am a living testament to how far a bachelor’s degree in psychology can take you if you have the aptitude and encounter the correct environmental circumstances and experience to use such knowledge accordingly. Since childhood I have had a keen interest in human nature and how we instinctively & predictability respond to each other. My experience in the social sciences came from decades of working in the production industry (film & entertainment). This provided me with the ability to interact with thousands of people as well as hundreds of opportunities to have sex with women and to engage in scores of love affairs. That journey for me began at age 16 and my first full blown love affair with a 21 year old woman who I eventually realized was very wise beyond her years. Her influence opened up my heart and mind to possibilities that I might not have otherwise considered. I currently write, produce, and host an internet radio talk show. I also write blogs and articles about the human condition especially when it comes to personal relationships.